130 Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Would You Rather Couple Questions

Everyday choices that reveal how the two of you like to live: weekends, chores, food and the thermostat.

1. Would you rather cook dinner together every night or take turns cooking alone every other night?
2. Would you rather spend Saturday mornings at the farmers market or spend Saturday mornings sleeping in?
3. Would you rather always do the grocery shopping or always do the meal planning?
4. Would you rather let your partner choose every restaurant or let your partner choose every show you watch together?
5. Would you rather have a home with a huge kitchen or have a home with a huge backyard?
6. Would you rather trade chores every week or each keep the same chores forever?
7. Would you rather spend a slow Sunday at home or spend a busy Sunday exploring somewhere new?
8. Would you rather share one big dessert or each order your own dessert?
9. Would you rather clean the house together with loud music playing or split up and clean in silence to finish faster?
10. Would you rather never miss breakfast together or never miss dinner together?
11. Would you rather keep the house spotless or keep it cozy and a little messy?
12. Would you rather do a jigsaw puzzle together on rainy days or bake something together on rainy days?
13. Would you rather put together flat-pack furniture as a team or paint a whole room as a team?
14. Would you rather learn a new recipe together every week or perfect one signature dish together?
15. Would you rather each have your own home office or share one big office?
16. Would you rather wake up early for coffee together or stay up late talking together?
17. Would you rather go for a walk after dinner every night or sit on the porch after dinner every night?
18. Would you rather make pancakes together every Saturday morning or make pizza together every Friday night?
19. Would you rather agree on every decorating choice together or each get one room to decorate however you like?
20. Would you rather have one TV in the house or have no TV at all?
21. Would you rather adopt a big lazy dog or adopt two playful kittens?
22. Would you rather keep a jungle of houseplants alive together or keep one very fussy orchid alive together?
23. Would you rather have your partner bring you coffee in bed every morning or have your partner cook you dinner every night?
24. Would you rather host friends for dinner every weekend or spend every weekend just the two of you?
25. Would you rather start a vegetable garden together or build a backyard fire pit together?

Romantic Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Sweet, not sappy: love notes, surprise trips and slow dances in the kitchen.

26. Would you rather have your partner plan a surprise weekend trip for you or plan a surprise weekend trip for your partner?
27. Would you rather find a little love note in your pocket every day or get one long handwritten letter every year?
28. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen while dinner cooks or watch the sunset from the rooftop together?
29. Would you rather celebrate every anniversary where you first met or celebrate every anniversary somewhere brand-new?
30. Would you rather get a handmade gift or get a gift you have wanted for years?
31. Would you rather have your partner learn to play your favorite song on the guitar or have your partner write you a poem?
32. Would you rather watch the first snowfall from a cozy window together or watch a summer thunderstorm from the porch together?
33. Would you rather get breakfast in bed on your birthday or get a surprise picnic in the park on your birthday?
34. Would you rather open a jar of 365 tiny notes, one each day or flip through one scrapbook of all your years together?
35. Would you rather have your partner cook your favorite childhood meal or have your partner take you to the best restaurant in town?
36. Would you rather get flowers every week or get a single flower on the day you least expect it?
37. Would you rather hold hands everywhere you go or have a secret signal only the two of you know?
38. Would you rather write each other letters to open in ten years or record video messages for each other to watch in ten years?
39. Would you rather take a dance class together or take a pottery class together?
40. Would you rather play tourist in your own city for a day or escape to a cabin with no plans at all?
41. Would you rather keep every ticket stub from your adventures together or take a photo in the same spot every year?
42. Would you rather have a candlelit dinner at home or have a fancy dinner out on the town?
43. Would you rather get a playlist made just for you or get a painting made just for you?
44. Would you rather hear your partner brag about you to their friends or find out your partner kept every note you ever wrote them?
45. Would you rather see what your partner was like at age ten for one day or see what you will both be like at eighty for one day?
46. Would you rather have your partner surprise you at work with lunch or have your partner surprise you at home with every chore already done?
47. Would you rather bury a time capsule together or plant a tree together and watch it grow?
48. Would you rather share a blanket on a chilly porch or share an umbrella on a rainy walk?
49. Would you rather float over a valley in a hot air balloon together or glide down a canal in a gondola together?
50. Would you rather dance in the rain together or build a pillow fort and read to each other?

Funny Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Friendly teasing about the habits you both know too well.

51. Would you rather have a partner who snores like a freight train or have a partner who talks in their sleep every night?
52. Would you rather win every thermostat battle or always get the fluffiest pillow?
53. Would you rather sleep next to a blanket hog or sleep next to someone who sprawls across three-quarters of the bed?
54. Would you rather let your partner cut your hair or let your partner pick your outfits for a week?
55. Would you rather eat every meal your partner burns without complaining or cook every meal using only what is left in the fridge?
56. Would you rather have your partner sing every song in the car off-key or have your partner turn every errand into a race?
57. Would you rather find your partner's socks in every room or find your partner's half-empty water glasses in every room?
58. Would you rather have your partner always eat the last cookie or have your partner always put the empty cereal box back in the cupboard?
59. Would you rather have a partner who laughs at their own jokes before the punchline or have a partner who tells the same story at every gathering?
60. Would you rather assemble furniture together with no instructions or wrap a gift together with no tape?
61. Would you rather let your partner record your voicemail greeting or let your partner name your next pet?
62. Would you rather have a partner who opens every present early or have a partner who finds every gift you hide?
63. Would you rather hear your partner hit snooze five times every morning or hear your partner crunch chips during every quiet movie scene?
64. Would you rather have a partner who leaves every cabinet door open or have a partner who never puts the cap back on the toothpaste?
65. Would you rather settle who does the dishes with a dance-off or settle it with a rock-paper-scissors tournament?
66. Would you rather navigate from memory while your partner drives or drive while your partner insists they know a shortcut?
67. Would you rather have your partner redecorate the living room while you are away or have your partner reorganize the whole kitchen while you are away?
68. Would you rather split every dessert exactly in half forever or never be offered a bite of your partner's dessert again?
69. Would you rather have a pet that clearly likes your partner more or have a pet that wakes only you up at 5 a.m.?
70. Would you rather rewatch your partner's favorite show from the very beginning or have your partner explain every plot twist while you watch?
71. Would you rather let your partner pack your suitcase or let your partner do your grocery shopping with no list?
72. Would you rather always be the one who carries spiders outside or always be the one who unclogs the drain?
73. Would you rather burn the popcorn every movie night or forget the pasta until it turns to mush?
74. Would you rather wear matching pajamas every night or wear matching outfits on every trip?
75. Would you rather have a partner who hides the remote in odd places or have a partner who hides snacks from you around the house?

Would You Rather Questions for Couples About the Future

Where to live, what to build and what to try together. Good for a long walk or a long drive.

76. Would you rather live on a quiet street where everyone knows each other or live in a busy building full of new faces?
77. Would you rather retire somewhere warm all year or retire somewhere with four real seasons?
78. Would you rather travel the world before settling down or settle down now and travel later?
79. Would you rather build your dream house from scratch or fix up an old house with lots of character?
80. Would you rather start a business together or keep your careers completely separate?
81. Would you rather start a yearly camping trip tradition or start a tradition of hosting everyone for a big holiday dinner?
82. Would you rather grow old in a farmhouse with lots of land or grow old in a condo with a view of the city?
83. Would you rather learn a new language together before a big trip or learn to sail together and sail somewhere far away?
84. Would you rather celebrate your twenty-fifth anniversary in Paris or celebrate it right back where it all began?
85. Would you rather live near both of your families or live far away and visit often?
86. Would you rather have a big vegetable garden someday or have a workshop where you build things together?
87. Would you rather take a year off together to travel or use that year to build your dream home?
88. Would you rather plan every step of the future together or take life one year at a time?
89. Would you rather own a cabin for weekend getaways or own a camper van for spur-of-the-moment trips?
90. Would you rather live abroad together for a few years or explore every corner of your own country?
91. Would you rather write a bucket list together and finish every item or keep adding to it forever and never finish?
92. Would you rather switch careers together at forty or stay in your careers and grow in them?
93. Would you rather try one new hobby together every year or master one hobby together for life?
94. Would you rather have a big house with room for guests or have a small house that is easy to keep clean?
95. Would you rather share one car forever or each have your own car?
96. Would you rather adopt a senior dog or raise a puppy from day one?
97. Would you rather open a tiny bakery together someday or run a bed-and-breakfast together someday?
98. Would you rather save for a vacation home or save for one amazing trip every year?
99. Would you rather keep every holiday tradition from both of your families or invent brand-new traditions of your own?
100. Would you rather live walking distance from everything or live an hour from the nearest neighbor?

Travel Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Planners versus wanderers, beaches versus cities, and who holds the map.

101. Would you rather follow a color-coded itinerary or plan each day of the trip over breakfast that morning?
102. Would you rather drive the Pacific Coast Highway or drive through New England in the fall?
103. Would you rather stay in a treehouse rental or stay on a houseboat?
104. Would you rather spend a week in Lisbon or spend a week in Iceland?
105. Would you rather take a train across Europe or sail around the Greek islands on a small boat?
106. Would you rather always be the navigator on road trips or always be the driver on road trips?
107. Would you rather have a trip where everything goes perfectly but nothing surprising happens or have a trip where everything goes wrong but you laugh the whole time?
108. Would you rather eat only street food on your trip or eat only at fancy restaurants on your trip?
109. Would you rather go back to the same favorite spot every year or go somewhere new on every trip?
110. Would you rather see the northern lights in Norway or see the cherry blossoms in Japan?
111. Would you rather wake up at 5 a.m. to beat the crowds or sleep in and see the sights when they are busy?
112. Would you rather explore a new city on foot or explore it on rented bikes?
113. Would you rather stay two nights in a fancy hotel or stay a whole week in a simple cabin?
114. Would you rather go on a safari in Kenya or snorkel the Great Barrier Reef?
115. Would you rather drive across the country in a camper van or fly to five cities in five days?
116. Would you rather take a cooking class in Italy or take a surf lesson in Hawaii?
117. Would you rather travel in the off-season with rainy days and no crowds or travel in peak season with sunshine and long lines?
118. Would you rather get a ten-hour layover in a city you have never seen or fly direct and arrive rested?
119. Would you rather book a room with an amazing view or book a room with an amazing breakfast?
120. Would you rather learn a few phrases of the local language before every trip or just point, smile and hope for the best?

Road Trip Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Ten cards from our road trip deck that suit two people and a long road: houseboats, sunrises and cabins with no Wi-Fi. The full deck has 60.

121. Would you rather sleep in a tent next to a lake or in a treehouse in a forest?
122. Would you rather live in an RV for a year or on a houseboat for a year?
123. Would you rather swim in an ocean with warm water or a lake with water so clear you can see the bottom?
124. Would you rather wake up at 5 a.m. to see the sunrise at the beach or stay up late to see the stars in the desert?
125. Would you rather ride a horse through a canyon or a bike across a bridge over the ocean?
126. Would you rather visit a city where it snows every day or a city where it's summer all year?
127. Would you rather stay at a cabin in the mountains with no Wi-Fi or a city hotel with a view of the skyline?
128. Would you rather ride the fastest train in the world or the slowest boat on the prettiest river?
129. Would you rather go camping where you can hear wolves at night or where you can hear the ocean?
130. Would you rather end the trip at a theme park or at a quiet beach with nobody else around?

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